Tit for tat or throw back some bread in return

The best defense is attacking. This is very true! But what we call defense and what for attack? Is it necessary to defense? My experiences shows that those are defending who have something to hide. The others are stand up for oneself, and yes there is a difference.

At one side you represent yourself that calm, confident thyself who does not have defense himself loud words, attacks or with diverting the suspicions, abuses etc… But if you are defending… the defending has a second thing beyond you, the thing which you have to defend. If you have to defend something, you have to do it because people are fearing it. These are e.g. secrets, material values, problems, things we don’t know or things what we created or just simply they are existing in us. These you have to defend and sometimes from defending creates attacking. In this condition both words have negative meaning, if we have even a little smart, we keep our self away from them, try to terminate them or we turn them into positive. And I say now: Let’s terminate them. Let’s understand who we are and figure out what are our values and be honest with our self and with the world! And so there will be no defending and no attacking. Because only we will stand against the prosecution, only we: the clean consciousness. The honest man who has values which are greater than anything in this material world and nobody can take it from us. We can stand in the middle of a horde of snarling dogs with calm and we will offer for our teeth another teeth from ours.

We give a tooth for a tooth and we will not take anything! Because we will know that any kind of attack do we get it does not apply on us. We can have past, failures but if we work on their abolition (solution) instead of building walls around them then we can solve two problems at same time: We don’t have to be afraid of attacks and the problems will be solved. We are humans, souls, spirits who can stand on plane with clean, truly, calmed soul where the dogs barking could not reach. And if they still can reach us, tear down the flesh from us then still our soul, mind, our being could stand still with a smile of „I will get a new body, I will live a new life but they will still bark with anger…”

One of Buddha’s story will help to understand this:  Buddha was traveling through a village where he was also born, in the border of India and Nepal, people were rallying around him and they started to insult, blaspheme him. He was listening for them for a half an hour, then he sad. The sun is very high by now and I have to reach the next village where people are waiting for me. I can’t spend more time for you, but if you haven’t told everything than be a little patient more. When I will come backward, I’ll have a little bit more time, and you can finish what you have started. You can say everything for me what you want. But please forgive me, I have to go.He was calm and staid however they were telling him so many obscenity. They didn’t believe their eyes:-We don’t want to talk with you, don’t you understand? –They said. –We want to insult and decry you!-I understand –answered Buddha- I really do, but what you are saying is not my problem. If you are angry than it is your problem. I did not wanted to encroach in your life, if you want to be angry than be angry, I you feel yourselves good so then why not? Say bad things, whatever you want, but I will not take any on myself from them… Truth is that you are a little bit late with that. If you ever wanted to hurt me than you had to do it at least 10 years ago. That time I’m sure, I would be very angry from you and I would fight back. But since I found the truth, my soul is completely free from any external opinion. What you think about me is about you and not about me. I know myself and so if anyone says anything from me it is not changing my knowledge.

This post is recommended to my best friend Maya who asked me in the near past, what to do with someone who is acting with her badly, tells bad thing to her and he annoys her…:-D I love you!

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